Etiquette for the gym
While on vacation I found an old issue of Self Magazine in the house we were staying at (2001 issue). They had this interesting section on "pet peeves" in the gym. I read through them, shaking my head and thinking of the many times people have committed these sins in my gym, and it got me thinking.
Not all of these etiquette rules are necessarily common sense. So one more reason people might be intimidated of the gym is because of the fact that they don't know these etiquette rules and therefore get stares and glares when they go to the gym. Not good.
In order to make everyone comfortable at the gym I wanted to list a few of the common etiquette mistakes in the gym. If you are an offender of one of these, you may want to reconsider your ways. If you're a newbie, please read through these so that when you go to they gym you'll feel comfortable and at ease.
- Talking on your cell phone - many gyms ban cell phones, but a lot don't. So even if you're gym allows them, keep your phone in your locker. It's rude when you're on the treadmill chatting it up and someone next to you is doing a six mile run and trying to tune out the world. This is your down time, your "you time" so keep the calls away and get back to them when you're done.
- While waiting for cardio equimpent to free up, staring at the people on the machines - many times you'll go to the gym (especially during "peak" times) and there will be no free cardio machines, which means you have to wait. But while you wait don't stand in front of a treadmill and stare at people finishing up their workout. If you can, go and do some crunches or weight machines while you wait, or take a seat and pick up a magazine.
- Leaving your sweat all over the gym equipment - they have those paper towels and spray cans there for a reason - to wipe up all of your sweat! If you use a machine or a bench, take the minute or two to spray it down and wipe it up.
- "Hogging" a weight machine - If you've ever been using a weight machine (like the lat pull down) and notice someone waiting to use it, offer to allow them to use the machine during the breaks between your sets. It's a great way to get in a good amount of rest between sets, and it's just courteous.
- Taking dumbbells or a stability ball while someone is still using it - This happens to me a lot. I like to do a "circuit" workout a lot of times so I'll have two dumbbells and a stability ball and a mat. I'll be doing biceps curls and then get on the ball to do chest flys... but sometimes someone will come up between my biceps curls and take my ball - even though it's right next to me. Best way to avoid this is to either take equipment from the designated areas, or simply wait until the person is done with the set and ask them... which leads to the next one...
- Talking to people who are in the middle of working out - If you see someone on a treadmill or doing reps on a machine or with weights, do not talk to them. Even if you know them from an exercise class, it's ruder to start a conversation than to walk by without saying anything. If you want to talk to them, wait until their done and resting. A lot of exercises take concentration, and when someone is blabbing to you during that, you'll lose the concentration and not work as hard. (Next time you're in class, you can say something like "I saw you working out, but didn't want to interrupt you're workout, how are you doing")
- STARING - the men in my gym are infamous for this one, but the ladies do it too. Working out makes you sweat and a lot of times puts you in positions that aren't the most flattering (i.e. butt sticking out during a squat). Therefore, do not stare at people in the gym. I know that sometimes people do weird things (like walking backwards on a stair climber, saw that yesterday) but they are not doing it for your viewing pleasure, so be nice and look away. If you need to stare at something stare at the TV or at yourself in the mirror.
- Talking to friends during an exercise class - Similar to being on your cell phone, when you're in group exercise classes and people are talking to one another it's rude to the teacher and to all the students. Keep you conversations for the locker room or for the coffee shop after class.
- Not unloading the weight bar - For some odd reason a lot of women don't use weight bars, but you should. Strength training builds up muscles, speeds up your metabolism and burns more calories while you're resting. That said, it's the worst when I go to do a leg press and some "beefhead" has left his 300 pounds of weights on the machine. I'm no lightweight and could take off all those 45 pound plates, but I shouldn't have to. So when you're done, unload the weights.
- Leaving gym equipment all over the gym - Gyms have weight racks and ball stands for a reason, to keep it tidy. So when you use some equipment be sure to return it to its home. It helps the gym stay clean and safe and it makes it faster for you next time because you won't have to search for the things you need.
- Last but not least, hogging the water fountain - This is not the place to catch your breath between sets, it's where you sip some water and move away. I regualrly use the fountain to fill up my water bottle, but if I see someone behind me I let them go first so they don't have to wait while I fill.













